Understanding Surrogacy

A comprehensive guide to surrogacy and family building

Surrogacy is a beautiful journey that helps individuals and couples achieve their dream of parenthood. This guide provides essential information about the surrogacy process, types, legal considerations, and what to expect.

Types of Surrogacy

Gestational Surrogacy

The most common type, where the surrogate carries a baby created through IVF using the egg and sperm of the intended parents or donors. The surrogate has no genetic connection to the child.

  • ✓ No genetic link between surrogate and baby
  • ✓ Fewer legal complications
  • ✓ More widely accepted legally
  • ✓ Requires IVF procedures

Traditional Surrogacy

Less common today, where the surrogate's own egg is used and fertilized through artificial insemination. The surrogate is genetically related to the child.

  • ✓ Genetic link between surrogate and baby
  • ✓ More legal complexities
  • ✓ Less commonly practiced
  • ✓ Lower medical costs

The Surrogacy Journey

  1. 1

    Initial Consultation & Planning

    Meet with agencies, understand costs, explore options, and decide on the surrogacy type that fits your needs.

  2. 2

    Surrogate Matching

    The agency helps match you with a suitable surrogate based on preferences, values, and compatibility. This process can take 2-6 months.

  3. 3

    Legal Agreements

    Comprehensive legal contracts are drafted covering all aspects: compensation, medical decisions, parental rights, and contingencies.

  4. 4

    Medical Procedures

    IVF process begins, including egg retrieval (if needed), fertilization, and embryo transfer. This can take several cycles.

  5. 5

    Pregnancy & Support

    9 months of pregnancy with regular monitoring, prenatal care, and ongoing communication between all parties.

  6. 6

    Birth & Legal Finalization

    Baby is born, parental rights are established through legal processes, and you take your baby home.

Legal Considerations

International Legal Landscape

Surrogacy laws vary dramatically by country and jurisdiction. Understanding these differences is crucial for a successful journey.

Important: Always consult with a specialized reproductive lawyer in both your home country and the surrogacy destination before proceeding.

Who Can Use Surrogacy?

Medical Indications

  • • Absence or malformation of uterus
  • • Repeated IVF failures
  • • Recurrent miscarriages
  • • Medical conditions making pregnancy dangerous
  • • Hysterectomy

Family Situations

  • • Heterosexual couples with fertility issues
  • • Same-sex male couples
  • • Single intended parents (where legal)
  • • Transgender individuals
  • • Anyone unable to carry a pregnancy

Understanding Costs

Surrogacy costs vary significantly by location, agency, and specific circumstances. Here's a general breakdown for the United States:

Agency Fees $15,000 - $30,000
Surrogate Compensation $30,000 - $60,000
Medical/IVF Costs $15,000 - $40,000
Legal Fees $10,000 - $20,000
Insurance & Misc $10,000 - $20,000
Total (USA) $90,000 - $170,000

International surrogacy in countries like Ukraine or Georgia typically costs $40,000 - $70,000, offering significant savings while maintaining quality standards.

Glossary of Terms

IVF (In Vitro Fertilization)
Process where eggs are fertilized by sperm outside the body in a laboratory.
Intended Parents
The person(s) who will become the legal and raising parents of the child.
Embryo Transfer
The process of placing embryo(s) into the surrogate's uterus.
Pre-birth Order
Legal document establishing intended parents as legal parents before birth.
Gestational Carrier
Another term for a gestational surrogate who has no genetic link to the baby.